Wanna be successfull in lyf..but why??

How to be successful in life?
Isn’t that an age-old ,one billion dollar question?But I’ld like to think it the other way.”Why do you wanna be successful in life?!”
‘Success’ is a subjective term..For me,success maybe to have my plant yeild fruits,it maybe the smile on the face of suffering people and to know that iam the reason behind it and like wise .But for a person of different profile,success may mean to accumulate wealth and increase social status…to compete or co-operate with others…to destroy others who harm you, or to practice nonviolence and nonresistance …to die having succeeded in your purpose and so on..and finally,for some people it is to simply live until one dies!
Leaving aside the defenition of what success is,let us hear from people why they feel they should be successful.
“I need to be successful as to have a career and getting to live without regret into old age with lots of friends.”
“Because I need Money Money and Money.”
“I need to be successful inorder to reach the highest possible level of awareness, deepest possible level of perception, newest possible levels of consciousness.”
“If I am successful, I will have money. And really, money does buy happiness. In my opinion, living on the streets is not being happy for me.Also it helps because I am an advertisers dream. I buy what I want. (And that is basically everything I see).”
“For being able to look back on my life at deaths door, and smile.”
“Because if i’m not successful in doing what i love, then it would be a fairly depressing existence.”
“So that i can help less fortunate people .”
“I know what the struggle is like, and I would prefer to not lose hair each month when the bills arrive!”
……. So goes on the varied thoughts.
Well,this question gave some answers like these too:-)
“I don’t! The less success the better, I would rather live under a bridge than have to have bodyguards, or paparazzi following me around.”...............

To me , personally I need to be successful so that I’ll gain recognition in my personal life, career and among the friends who mean a lot and that is my barometer for success in journey through life.Sometimes i prefer crying alone and make the people around me happy n wen i see them smiling to me , i feel like iam the most successful women in this world ."How Many Lives did I touch " That is what makes sense to me.
And what is it to you?

Just think about it...sounds cool na.....:)

Bday

Dear All :

Happy Bday to my soul mates, my frnds , my sister evrthng the one n only ik4...Today , our Bday and it seems very odd as none of us were able to meet today...

The day was so hectic for me...everthing was horible, the train journey the ofce work the return journey evrything...

Couldnt even talk to any of the IK4...iam really sad n evrthing that is hapning around me is going in a wrong way...still i ve to fix a smile on my face to make others happy..Dont knw why is it lik this 4 me always...

hmm..any way, its our bday..even though we could nt celebrate it properly we all love this day...SO happy Bday to IK4

i miss u ol so badly....love u so muchhh

Intimacy

An intimate experience is one of the cherished moments of your life. Nothing else can be more fantastic than sharing your deepest thoughts with the person you love the most. “Fear of intimacy”,a common term referred to in failing relationships.Ever wondered why it matters so much?Well,I personally believe that a relationship is all about intimacy,and fear of intimacy ruins the basic fulfillment and no beautiful and long-lasting bonds can be developed over such a fragile foundation.It is hard for most of us to believe that if someone else REALLY knows us, they will still love us.

Intimacy is communicating your true thoughts and feelings;fear of intimacy involves emotional walls.Intimacy in relationships involves sharing what you really think,believe and feel.It’s about opening up your heart and mind,and lettng others do the same.It’s risky,which is why fear of intimacy often develops.Intimacy is very risky. It requires making such a serious commitment to the relationship that each person will experience a sense of dependency on the other.Even if you love someone who loves you back wholeheartedly and vows to never hurt you,you’re taking a risk.But as potentially risky as loving is not-loving is worse.

When you now what you fear,you’re in a better position to deal with it.Opening your heart and letting go of your fears can be difficult.But you’ve to when it becomes inevitable in making the relationship a beautiful one.Fear of intimacy can be overcome only when the dread of rejection is removed.The strongest foundation of an intimate relationship is a good friendship.Ask yourself questions like ’what stops me being more intimate in my relationships’ and rapidly move to ‘what will happen when I am able to be more intimate in my relationships?’.The answer you find yourself you open up windows and let bliss flow in.

Always remember that not everyone can express their feelings well.If you want,then you can practice on being more intimate.However,there is no way you can change the people you love.While we cannot change others,we can encourage them to express themselves.It is important to let them know that we won’t reject them,no matter what.Thatz part of trust building we talk about.Encourage openness and honesty.The more we discuss fear of intimacy,the more the other person may open up.Overcoming fear of intimacy requires honesty on both sides.The more both partners open up and embrace each other,the more deeper and intimate the relation will be....

courtesy to one of my frnd for this blog..:)

ChaNge..

even dho we were looking out fr a change..its kinda sore feeling whn we got it, like its feeling like..everything changed all in a moment..so suddenly..god changed us like some magicians turn a paper ball in to flowers in a single spell.. faith is always beyond our wish.. this is wot we wanted but ..we didnt want it this quickly.. paachus got transfer..i resigned and gona join new job frm 05th onwards..the one left is Munnus.. sure by the month of May.. yu will also get yur turn..life is too misterious..too unpredictable..things happns in that very unexpected manner..life is like a flash light ..as sir.paulo says.. "ths world is never a safe place to live" why arent we not able to live our life as we wish..?? why arent we doing wat we really wants to do?? i m scared..m scared about every next moment..m feeling insecure..feelin like m being send to a lonely planet..with alians all around.. i wana scream loudly.. ;[

lets...lets just pray god..i dont have anything els to write..